Was initially tight foreskin victim, but after some stretching exercise finally the gland can fully exposed. But now i encounter another problem, which is the sensitivity of my gland. Everytime my girlfriend give blow job on me,i jus ejaculate like within 3 or less minutes.how can i improve the time? in other words to be able to sustain for some time before i ejaculate?
How can i hold on to longer time before ejaculate?
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Its all mental. Don’t think about the sex if you want to last.
whack it off BEFORE she does this to you (without her knowing) and then you’ll probably be able to hold it in for quite a whle…..
Delayed gratification technique would really work for you. You can “train” yourself while you are alone. When you masturbate and feel yourself getting close, stop completely until the feeling passes. Then start again. When you feel it getting close, stop completely again. Do this as many times as you can without ejaculating.
You need to continue this with your girlfriend. You will need to communicate very well with your girlfriend. I’m assuming that the words that were blocked had something to do with oral sex. If that’s the case, you will have to ask her to stop what she’s doing until the feeling passes. Resist the urge to let it go, as strong as that urge is. Stop everything until things calm down and the feeling subsides. Then continue. It takes a lot of practice.
One more technique you can use is to masturbate before having sex. Not RIGHT before, but within a few hours. It will help you relax and not be overly stimulated.
As you get older, you’ll learn to control it more. Young men have difficulty with this, then for some reason, some men go through it again in mid-life. You just have to go back to the techniques described above to help you last longer. Also, take the lead and please her first. Arouse her without your penis: passionate kissing, touching, stimulating her with your fingers, and oral sex. If you focus on her during foreplay, then she will be satisfied when you do ejaculate.
Good luck!