Lets say you start seeing a guy for a while and things start getting hot and then he tells you that he can’t get it up. What would your reaction be?
Lets say you start seeing a guy for a while and things start getting hot and then he tells you that he can’t get it up. What would your reaction be?
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That depends on why the guy was impotent and whether it was permanent or not.
depending how mature she is and also, if she is understanding. I would ask him if anything is wrong, nothing to freak out about it.
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I’d help him…if it didn’t work I’d b pissed.
I had a boyfriend for whom this was an issue. It didn’t matter because I genuinely cared for him and wanted him for more than just sex. If you lover is sympathetic then it shouldn’t matter. I helped my boyfriend by checking out information on the internet and going with him to the doctors etc. We dealt with it together and it didn’t matter to me a bit.
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I’ve had this happen to me recently. I usually want to help. I want to help the guy relax, take the pressure off, not be so nervous about sex. It doesn’t turn me off to the guy, just makes me want to try to fix the problem with him.
Honestly, maturity aside, I WILL BE PISSED. Not because he can’t get it up, but due to his lack of communicating to me BEFORE he got us all hot that he is impotent.
Some may ask, well when is the right time? Well, if we are at that hot stage, it should be apparent that our relationship developed into a mature conversation of trust and understanding. If I was some pop off from the club then you perpetrating that you are robust and NOT will again PISS ME OFF!
send her to buthead