I have recently been experiencing premature ejaculation issues and impotence issues. My girlfriend gets me really excited and I will ejaculate very fast, but then after that I can’t get it back up. Has anyone ever heard of anything like this? Any suggestions/advice. I am 20 years old and I am glad she is very supportive of me, but still for future I want to resolve this issue.
Should I go to a doctor or something? Should I do kegels or something?
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You can try chinese traditional medicine. Acutlly ,my boyfriend have your same problem before. but he use chinese traditional medicine to treat. now, he is fine.
Impotent means you can’t get it up the first time…. it’s normal to need a ‘rest’ period after the first ejaculation.
In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
Masturbate an hour or 2 before having sex.
The “stop and start” method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The “squeeze” method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.If you know how to identify these muscles and how to control your mind,ejaculation won’t happen until you desire.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation
http://www.prejaculationcure.info